Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Change!

Hi everyone :o),

The only constant in life is change.......great quote and rings so true.

I believe that in order to have constancy in life, we need to be not only adaptable but more importantly completely "Unattached" to anything or anyone. The idea of belonging to someone or they belonging to us, let it be parents, children, spouses, romantic partners or friends....is entirely unrealistic and therefore a complete fallacy.  I have been listening to some of Wayne Dyer's audio tapes and he repeatedly reminds us that the only way to live is NOW..this second...that's it...within our own existence. He says that by being attached to others and things, we create a false sense of security,  a dependent sense of security...which, if broken, turns our lives upside down.  He also says that in order to maintain peace in our lives, we need to cut the strings of attachment and just allow our relationships to develop as they are meant to be. What  we need is to acknowledge and accept that not all relationships are made to last a lifetime...and that's ok. We have a tendency to re-open doors that are meant to remain shut.These relationships play their part in teaching us about ourselves and our interpersonal relationships skills.  The key in sustaining any relationship is simply LOVE. To feel it, receive it and give it freely.  We can all agree that it's easy to love those who treat us well and love us back...the challenge is loving the unlovable, the difficult and the resistant ones...

The lesson today is that we need to send love energy to all those in our lives and the world. It boomerangs right  back to us.  Especially those who challenge us should be sent love energy...as well as blessings and forgiveness. And, it is so important to remember that those people may have things in their lives that make it hard for them to express themselves. The truth is, we  cannot give away what we don't have and I feel sorry for people incapable of love...makes me want to take them in my arms and whisper softly....I love you.

Please take a few moment and think of those closest to you as well as those who perhaps trigger feelings of anger, sadness and/or resentment... close your eyes:  picture yourselves embracing them and sending them silent love energy directly into their hearts.  You will see....love conquers all...you may just see a difference in the way they treat others and you in particular.

Be blessed with peace, love and light  Sasha